Candle Lighting

Illuminating Your Connection

The Lighting of the Candles is a beautiful, time-honoured ritual that visually represents the joining of two lives, two families, and two hearts. It is a moment of quiet reflection and bright hope that adds a layer of sacredness and warmth to any ceremony.

A photo of a couple lighting candles.

The Symbolism

In this ceremony, two individual candles are lit to represent your separate lives, your unique personalities, and the families you come from. Together, you use those individual flames to light one central "Unity Candle." This single, brighter flame symbolises your new life together—a union where your individualities are not lost, but rather combined to create something even more radiant.

A photo of Jill Venn.

Personalising Your Ritual

As your celebrant, I love finding ways to make this ritual truly yours. We can involve:

  • Parents or Children: Having family members light the individual candles to represent the support system surrounding you.
  • Memorial Tributes: Lighting a candle in quiet remembrance of loved ones who are present in spirit.
  • Musical Accompaniment: Choosing a meaningful song to play during the lighting to create a truly atmospheric moment.
A photo of Jill Venn.

I acknowledge the Whadjuk Nyoongar people as the Traditional Owners of the lands and waters where Perth city is situated today, and pay respect to Elders past and present.